What Lasts: How to Build a Legacy That Matters

What if legacy wasn’t about what you leave behind, but who you’re with now?
In this moving and practical Talk from Cedar Hills Church in Sandpoint, Idaho, Alyssa and Casey McLaughlin explore what it means to build a legacy of faith, presence, and love that reaches beyond achievements or appearances. It’s not about perfection. It’s about withness, being with the people you love in a way that echoes Jesus.

The Power of Presence in a Distracted World

We all want to pass something on that matters. But between work, stress, and screen time, it’s easy to miss the moments that actually shape our legacy. Through Scripture, history, and their own honest (and sometimes hilarious) parenting stories, Alyssa and Casey remind us that legacy isn’t built through status, it’s built through presence.

From the “puke stair” to Rome’s empire, from Paul’s last letter to a timid young man named Timothy, this Talk is a reminder that God doesn’t need our polish, He uses our presence. When we show up, even messy and imperfect, God shows up too.

Who This Talk Is For

This is for anyone in North Idaho navigating family, legacy, or faith in real life. Whether you're a parent, a grandparent, or just someone asking, “Does my life really matter?”, this Talk offers both inspiration and action. Especially if you’ve felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to pass on faith to the next generation.

You don’t need a plan. Just a heart that says, I want to be with them, and with God, one step at a time.

This isn’t about lofty ideas. It’s about choosing to be with the people God’s placed in your life. Watch this Talk and ask, Who am I fanning into flame?

❓ FAQ Section

Q: What does the Bible say about building a legacy?
A: This Talk explores 2 Timothy, Paul’s final letter, and shows how legacy isn’t about power, but passing faith from one person to the next.

Q: What if I’ve already messed up as a parent or leader?
A: You’re not alone. This Talk reminds us that legacy is about showing up again and again—not about having a perfect track record.

Q: How can I pass on my faith to people who aren’t interested in church?
A: Through presence, stories, and love. This Talk models how influence happens in real life—when we choose to be with others, just like Jesus.